Girls can ask a man out too
Many girls think its up to the man to make the first move but often men can feel intimidated. Remember they don't mature as fast as you, also its a common myth that a man will think in the same way as a girl. Don't expect him to know just because you look at him in a sultry sexy way that he knows you want him to fuck you hard.
Its not that straight forward many men spend hours wondering how to ask you out, but then when the time comes they fall over their words and just can't manage to get the courage up. Why is this? Often its a simple lack of experience, but it can be experience at a young age which puts them off. Young girls can be cruel in school for example teasing the immature boys and putting them off talking to girls never mind asking them out on a date.
If you really fancy a guy go ahead and ask him out yourself on a fun date. Here are a couple of ideas to get you started;
1. Go roller skating or maybe ice skating. If you are experienced and he says know it might be because he doesn't know how, offer to helm him learn. On the other hand if you know he can, ask him teach you, even if you know how already. It will make him feel good about himself and less self conscious if its something he knows he's good at. This is the type of date which is is an excellent ice breaker since both of you could embarrass yourselves so much that you will just have to laugh. Think about how you can use it to get close beforehand, maybe a bit of day dreaming. After the event you can be sure he will remember and fantasise about you and its guaranteed he will be going a lot further than he did in real life. Maybe next time you can kiss him passionately
2. Take a long romantic walk, you could always stop off for a drink on the way too. OK so this is really obvious but its often the simple things in life which make the difference. You will be surprised about how much difference it actually makes. You can actually get to know a person by talking to them, give him a chance to talk to you and you'll soon have an incling about what he's looking for when dating. After all, there's nothing like the loss of inhibitions you will both get from a quick drink and plenty of time to discuss them as you walk back. Who know you might get more than you bargained for when you get home and invite him in for a coffee

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