Do Men like it when a woman asks them on a date?

Men definitely like it when anyone asks them out on a date especailly a gorgeous woman they've been eyeing up in the office but didn't dare ask. What's not to like? However before you get started with your contact list, there are some important points you should consider.

To begin with, most guys have sex on the mind every few seconds subconciously and a little less frequent conciously, so the guy will wonder if you've called him up simply because you are a slut who want to have sex with him. While he's wondering he might just be planning how he can convince you even if that's not your plan up front.

Guys are generally hoping to have sex whenever they go on a date, so this probably won't mean he'll behave any different, but you might want to set some limits early on. (nless of course that is why you called him in teh first place.

Also, be prepared to deal with the dating grey areas: When he's in control asking you out he will drive, pay and suggest where to go; however if you are taking the lead are you willing to do it all? The impetus is generally on the guy to control the flow of events on a date, but since you initiated things, how far will you go? Ideally, this will be part of the fun, but it can lead to confused expectations and potential embarassment on both sides.

Another thing to consider is something guys have been dealing with since time began:

The answer might be no. Be prepared but consider it might not be that he doesn't want to but rather because he's too shy or surprised not all men have been asked out before he might not know how to deal with it.

I remember once being asked out at work by an older woman, I was just 21 and it was her 30th birthday. The approach was made by one of her friends and caught me totally off guard maybe if she'd asked herself it woudl have been better but anyway here's what happened.

Tracy came over to me while I was working asked how I was and said it was Debbies 30th birthday I said I didn't think she was that old; Debbie smiled at me and said she liked me and asked how old I thought she was I said about 25. I should add at this point that I'd never been asked out by a girl before.

Anyway Tracy, her friend, was very blunt and said so do you want to take her for a drink or give her a shag. Now although I wanted to have sex with her this caught me totally off guard. Debbie said mmm yes in the back ground and I immediately responded no I made some stupid feeble excuses and have regretted it ever since.

Thus girls don't be put off by a negative answer he might not want to go out but you might just have casught him off guard. It might work for you asking him out in a blunt fashion but if he hasn't been asked before it could just be that he doesn't know how to say yes and enjoy the experience.