What can you do with a guy who won't splash the cash

According to one poll, girls would rather date a guy who's an average kisser than one who won't spend his money. However, a man might have other redeeming qualities, maybe he makes you orgasm every time or he's good company or looks after you well. Now what can you do to improve his Scroogeiness rather than considering hooking up with a sugar daddy.

The worst thing you can do is to put him on the spot insisting he pays you're sure to drive him away. Don't go somewhere and leave your purse when normally you pay, don't out by call him cheap just because you paid last time, name calling too will just sour the relationship you are building. Instead start by making it clear how much you think of him and what a fantastic person he is men do respond well to flattery. Later, but not immediately attempt to direct the discussion towards money in general. Explain to him your beliefs and values with respect to money and how they were shaped. For example, as a child, were you given an pocket money to spend at will on anything that took your fancy, or did you work at part-time jobs so you coudl do your own thing. Follow this up by asking him to share his experiences with you. Assuming he does so look out for indications of where his fears about spending come from. Maybe his parents were unemployed for long stretches of time, or is he an orphan. Bear in mind, money can also be linked to his feelings of security or self-worth. Don't push too hard, but do let him know that his reluctance to spend money on you makes you feel he doesn't care for you. You could also suggest a compromise: If you cook him dinner and rent a movie three dates in a row, agree that he will take you out somewhere wonderful.

If, despite his innate lack of willingness to spend, he's open to compromise, you've got a keeper. A man who wants to please his partner is better than money in the bank. To most of us anyway.